I think that it is a good idea to start a family such a young age because of financial problems, stress , and anxiety. Parenting and starting a family are two different things parenting is normally not planed but, starting a family is normally planed. Along time ago people use to get married at the age of 13-14 years of age and would have children. Today people are not so open to the thought of young girls having children while still young themselves. Even though at one period in time it was not looked down on to get married at such a young age and have children.
Society has grown over time which makes it harder to understand things such as avian children at a young age. Even though the teen grows up and matures more it is hard to raise someone when you are still learning about yourself. In today’s economy and society I can understand why it is looked down upon because, it is very hard to raise a child while trying to strive for things yourself. A lot of times when a teen pregnancy happens it motivates the parent’s to work towards handling things, and working towards their dreams.
A lot of people argue the fact that that if you are in school, have no career, and are staying at your parent’s house. You plan on bring a new life into the world without he basic necessity’s that bare needed to live comfortably without having a lot of problems Not everyone thinks about the both good and bad things about having a child a lot of people think about how cute and well dressed their child will always be. They don’t think about income, how much clothing cost, or how much money they will spend on food and pampers.
Things like this should be in one’s mind before they engage in sexual activity. Not everyone has a baby Just to play dress up, studies show a lot of times if a child does not feel loved, or cared about the child will look for love from anywhere they can. Although a child is a big responsibility some teen parent’s give it up for themselves because, they are not ready to give up their normal life and they a lot of times feel like they gave up enough of their time being a teenager while being pregnant so they chose adoption.
Sometimes a teen parent cannot support a child factually so their only choice is to put their child up for adoption. Teen parent’s are placed with a lot of choices and responsibilities and sometimes can become stressed with the choices at hand. Some teen parent’s do not have someone that they can talk to about parenting, so some teen parent’s are lost as far as parenting. Life is full of choices the choices you make today will affect Stephen R.
Covey said,” But until a person can say deeply and honestly, “l am what I am today because of the choices I made yesterday,” that person cannot say, “l choose otherwise. ” The most important thing about this topic is that these young teens have to make choice for today that will elementally affect there tomorrow. This is also a challenge because, the teen has to make a choice of adoption, abortion, or keeping the child when still a child themselves. The choices that the teen parent’s choices determine now child will grow in life. Seashell Alamos Mr.. Rowels English IA,BIB
